“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much

fault you find with another, and regardless of how

much you blame him, it will not change you.

The only thing blame does is to keep the focus

off you when you are looking for external reasons

to explain your unhappiness or frustration.

You may succeed in making another feel guilty about

something by blaming him, but you won’t

succeed in changing whatever it is about you

that is making you unhappy.”