“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much
fault you find with another, and regardless of how
much you blame him, it will not change you.
The only thing blame does is to keep the focus
off you when you are looking for external reasons
to explain your unhappiness or frustration.
You may succeed in making another feel guilty about
something by blaming him, but you won’t
succeed in changing whatever it is about you
that is making you unhappy.”